What Not to Ask Tarot, and What to Ask Instead
Most bad tarot readings start with a bad question, not a bad card. Some questions cannot be answered honestly by a deck of pictures, and some are answered so reliably badly that the site says so plainly. Here is what to avoid and how to rewrite it.
Health and medical questions
A card cannot diagnose anything, cannot tell you whether a condition will improve, and cannot tell you how long anyone will live. Anything in that territory is a medical question, and the honest answer is a doctor, not a spread.
On this site those questions get crisis and health information instead of a card. That is not a disclaimer bolted on at the end; it is why the reading does not happen.
What someone else is thinking
'Does he love me', 'is she lying', 'what do they really think of me' — these ask a deck to report on another person's inner life, which no card can do. What you get back is your own hope, dressed as an answer.
Rewrite it onto your side of the line: 'what do I need in this relationship', 'what am I not saying', 'what would honesty cost me here'. Those questions have answers you can act on.
Yes or no about a future you control
Questions like 'will I get the job' invite you to hand over agency to a card. There is a legitimate yes or no reading, but it works best on questions you cannot resolve by thinking harder.
Ask 'what should I do before the interview' instead, or use the yes or no tool knowing it describes a leaning rather than a result.
Questions with a hidden premise
'Why is he pulling away' assumes he is. 'How do I fix this' assumes it is yours to fix. Cards are obliging and will answer the premise rather than the question, which is how people get readings that feel true and are built on nothing.
Say the assumption out loud first. If you cannot defend it, the question needs rewriting before the cards.
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Frequently asked questions
Can I ask about someone who is not present?
You can ask about the situation between you, but not about their private thoughts or feelings. The card describes what is available to you, not what is inside them.
Is a yes or no question ever fine?
Yes, when it is small, specific and not about health. A one-card yes or no is a good way to break a tie you have already thought about a lot.
What if I already asked a bad question?
Nothing breaks. Draw again with the rewritten version, or treat the first draw as a note about what you were worried about.
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